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Losing Is Part of the Process

I’ve been unfortunate as of late, on the receiving end of several bad ideas that turned into money losing ventures. I like to remind myself, as well as people around me, that the business of speculating is nothing more than a game of peaks and valleys. It’s important to moderate the valleys, while maximizing the peaks of course. I’d be perfectly content with booking 10 losing trades in a row, if I could nail just 2.

Most of the time my losses are small, anywhere from 3-10%. At times, due to the complexities of the market, ideas run aground and minor setbacks become impediments. Throughout my career, especially early on, I recall feeling a distinct sense of doom following large losses.  I felt as if I could never make the money back. The hole was too big and nothing that I could see at the time could “bail” me out. Lo and behold, with a little patience and plenty of smarts, I dug myself out and buried my enemies where they stood.

There’s an old saying, famous around these parts: “The Fly wins all the time, even when he is losing.”

To clarify,  losing is nothing more than a waystation, a temporary set back of sorts, to greatness. Some of you scratch your heads in amazement how someone could be so bold, yet distinguished. I only talk to you this way because it is my right to do so. Once you’ve gone through the motions, the investment life of Le Fly, you will learn to never bet against a person, such as myself.

You come to this blog and witness lots of people are reading it. Naturally, this is true. I never tried to become a world famous blogger in the arts of finance. It was my natural born right to do so, no different than it is the right of your neighbor to throw trash on your lawn or be a pervert.

The point I am trying to make, and did so quite effectively if I might say so, is that we’re all on a path, all unique but deliberate. The foundations of these paths were etched out many years ago, through the toils of hard work and ingenuity. Hubris has a way of muddying the waters, giving those who do not possess talent to feel a sense of entitlement. This is false hope and misdirected energy.

At the end of the day, it’s important to take a step back and realize who you are, limitations and all, with regards to the game of speculation.

Whenever a young chap comes up to me and talks with me about his investment career, I always ask “what was the first stock that you lost a million dollars in?” No one likes to talk about their losers because most cannot deal with adversity. They feel it makes them look weak. Quite the contrary. I wear my losses on my arm like a badge of honour. They are my battle scars, reminders to enjoy the moments when I am peaking.

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21 comments

  1. Frog

    Wow. What a great treatise on investing, losing, & winning.

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  2. The Flamethrower
    The Flamethrower

    Fly, so eliquently said. Like in any endeavor, it’s the losses that make you stronger. Hubris is the real enemy to most. I’ve personally been on both sides of the mountain, and only after having done so can I really enjoy the journey.

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  3. xxxHuggieBearxxx
    xxxHuggieBearxxx

    I am eventually going to make my money back on MCP. $16 i breakeven. Only thing i own at this point.

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  4. jimmy_two_times

    So true. Everyone in this business talks about their winners as though they have a perfect track record. If thats true then why are they still here? should be on an island instead of blessing us with their presence.

    I always considered booking a loss as tuition, so long as you have leanred from the experience.

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  5. Mad Willie Thompson
    Mad Willie Thompson

    “…throw trash on your lawn or be a pervert.”

    Classic! Also eerily accurate for my own neighborhood.

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  6. cui bono

    Losing is of the same ilk as pain. Both being temporary, a mindset and a prelude to achievement.

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  7. flyaway18

    Good post. I find that losing money has made me a wiser investor.

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  8. flyaway18

    I’m still long those positions of SHLD and VHC I posted as buys on 12-21. I still like HLSS and I just bought some VFC today on the dip, small starter. I also bought some MRK at the $40 level. However, I have a friend who has worked for Bristol Myers 20 years and he says it’s a buy. A few years back they bought a company called Mediatrix (just rattling off the name and not sure of the spelling because I have to run to do lunch duty lol) and he said that Mediatrix has a great pipeline and that BMY will have a nice 4Q. That’s all for now!

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  9. DaveyNC

    Congratulate me then, good sir. I am yet a n00b and sacked up the other day and took a shot to the ‘nads in TFM. Tuition.

    No, not even remotely close to losing $1M, but a big shot to me. I am but a pleb. A very small pleb.

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  10. widespreadpanik

    Fly,

    You speak from the heart and that is well respected by all. Any chance you swap out playing EKK for AG? It seems that EKK just is dead meat compared to SLW or AG.

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  11. Bullish

    The fear of 2013 won’t be fiscal cliff disasters or euro debt blow ups… it will be the fear of missing the rally.

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    • Bullish

      Also, I’d like to add my wish for 2013 will be for all the 100% gold bugs to get blown up.

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  12. Mr. Cain Thaler

    Patience this morning. Abe is coming to save us.

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  13. juice

    another good one, sir fly

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  14. Rally Monkey

    I have blah blah insurance, person come help!

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  15. charlie

    Nice post.

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  16. LorznzoTheSixth

    Great post is great.

    But, well, what is 1 million for you, good Sir ?

    I have personnally started the game in 2008, losing badly in a few short weeks.
    That was 2-3 months of my salary income, something like 10 months of my rent. At the time, it was 50% of my portfolio.

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