There we were, thehusband and I, now charged with earning all our income trading Mr. Market. We decided to day trade mostly with a few swing trades on the side. We had decided that we needed to guard our capital and come at the market from a cash neutral position. After the ’08-’09 crash, we were cautious. I was flat out scared, and with this now being our only income, we HAD to make it work and we HAD to protect our capital. Finally, we started adding back longer term positions and I dedicated a separate long term account.
Once the Devil’s Market started rising from 666 on the S&P in March of ’09, we started making money. It was too easy. You could throw a dart at a heat map and make money. If I hadn’t been so cautious, I could have made a lot more. If I had reinvested in $OXY even, I’d have made most of my losses back. But how do you go all back in after the experience of watching it all disappear so quickly? You don’t. Your fear steps in and keeps you from repeating the thing that screwed you before. Your fear (pesky emotion) is there to help you learn from your mistakes. But we were making money again….aided by the fact that we had discovered IBankCoin and The PPT. We were smart enough to know that we needed help from pros because clearly we had just screwed it up and could no longer afford to do that. We were making money again and it felt good. We made more money in ’09 than we had made in previous years with salaried jobs.
We had not changed our luxurious lifestyle. We never had a reason too. We lost a lot of money but it happened so fast. In one month, I had lost half the value of my $OXY stock of which I was heavily in and I sold it at the bottom. It took over two years to get back to its 2008 peak.
But we were making money in short term trades and could still easily afford our lifestyle without making any changes. 2010 proved more difficult but we managed to make it by even if we were getting a little behind. I had the attitude that I could make it back and so we still had not changed our lifestyle. By the fall of 2010, thehusband had started a new job and I had joined 12631. The future looked brighter. I made good money in the last quarter of 2010 with the help of The Pelican Room’s Chess and RC and thehusband was bringing in an outside income again. Retirement accounts were set to grow again.
2011 is really starting to hurt. I am a little stunned that I allowed myself to get to this point. And I am fighting those pesky emotions. Worse, nobody seems to be able to get a hold on this market. It is not dropping quickly as it did in 2008, which would be easier, it is just bleeding us at a couple of percentage points per week, now six in a row, seemingly bouncing off of support levels then drifting down through them by a couple of points. How much further can it go? … a lot further before becoming a double dip recession which is rather scary.
And so it is the end of the world as we know it….again. I am a good trader in a tight spot – nothing new there. I have good risk management rules. I was wooed by the crack from the likes of “thebill” and I lost discipline when I needed it most, but I have the skills and intuition to get back on track. Sadly I am losing my optimism. Worse, even thehusband has gone negative, heck even Jim Cramer is getting bearish. This can only mean one thing, we are about to have a rip the tits off Bettie Page roaring rally.
Or we will slowly, drip, bleed and chop down into a double dip recession proving that when you screw up really badly in Mr. Market’s world, it is a world that will end but will be reborn again as it has in cycles for the last 100 years.
I know, I know…I should wait for the right market environment to trade in… but hey, it’s the end of the world, and I feel fine.
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